celotehanku

..dari peri gigi dengan cinta...

...and it's closed.

Saat matahari semakin terasa menyengat panas
Saat hujan tak henti membasahi dingin
Saat hembusan angin tak lagi terasa lembut
Saat hening tak lagi datang menemani lelah



[Finding solace, finding solace somewhere
Seeking comfort, seeking comfort somewhere]
…else.


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kalau Virgo pulang kampung [selamanya]

Maaf, ini mungkin adalah postingan terakhir saya di tahun ini, dan belum tahu kapan bisa kembali posting seperti biasa dan blogwalking lagi seperti biasa. Maklum lagi disibukkan dengan proses pulang kampung, packing sana packing sini, sibuuuk deh! hehe...
but, i'll be back! i promise!!

Terimakasih buat teman-teman blogger yang sudah mampir dan komen di sini. Namun sekali lagi maaf saya belum bisa membalas kunjungannya..maaf yaaa [tolong dimaafkan saja yaaa, biar bisa pindahan dengan tenang :P ....]

Tapi sebelumnya, saya mau berbagi crita dulu yaa...[dasar blogger!!]. Kemarin, seperti biasa di ruang chatting, saat ngobrol gak jelas dengan teman-teman lama, saya diramal,,ramalan sifat aja sih..nah hasil ramalannya saya posting di sini yah..maaf saya cuma pasang yang virgo saja, karena bintang saya virgo. Jadi buat yang bintangnya virgo, selamat mencucokkan yaaa!!! yay! hidup virgooo!!!



VIRGO MAN

Time is precious for Virgo man and if you make him wait, he will consider
that as an insult. He hates to hear criticism and hates to be criticize. If
he is criticizing other people, then he must be influenced by other Zodiac.
He is and he likes to be a perfectionist. He always think he is doing the
right and appropriate thing , and often he thinks he makes no mistake. He is
a bright guy and could accept comments if he thinks it can improve himself.
He is the type who well adjusted to make changes.

He will spent money carefully and spent it worthwhile. He will only
extravagant for his personnel pleasure only. He is quite romantic, a type of
guy who can drive 100 miles just to tell you how much he misses you. If he
does not care about you, he will not even spent a dime to call you locally.
Long distant special low rate call is also out of the question.

He hates rough and crude people. His woman has to be clean and dress well.
He inspects any thing in details beside being a perfectionist, so you could
be lying in your bikini with a perfect figure and he can suddenly comments
you about your big feet. If you gain 2 pounds , he may comments you are
getting too fat. Before going out with this kind of guy, look at yourself
head to toe in the mirror and ask yourself if you are really and entirely
ready. Unless he dates a model, then he will have less comments.

He is neat and tidy, so his life always in a schedule, a fix time to lunch,
the same time to go home. He is well knowledge about food and conscious
about nutrition, so you won't see this guy eating a junk food, or strange
and exotic food for sure.

You will see him in social events or party if only necessary. He is gifted
with acting, so if he says he can not go out with you because he is sick,
then you will belief him. He is a hard to please when it comes to what to
eat, how to work, what kind of a woman to date. He always neat and tidy all
the times, even if he is in the army, he will be the cleanest soldier in the
camp. He likes to speak properly with no slang. He hates laziness and lazy
people. He always act like a boring mature adults, but getting to know him ,
you will know he has his own charm.

He always see things clearly, so he is not the type to be blinded by love.
He is a kind and cool guy, but if constantly irritate with rudeness,
ignorant, or stupidity then he will show you that he is annoyed. You may see
a guy in this Zodiac dress up in an old shirt and old Jean, but if you look
carefully, you will see that his hair is neat and unconsciously he will
touch his hair a lot. His desk is always neat and if he sees small scrap
paper on the floor, he will pick it up or put it in the basket.

People may think he is selfish, because when he says "No", he really means
it. Any favor asked , he will help but always in his own limit. The more he
see faults in others, the less he wants people to see his. If you want him
to change his faults, try to tell him gently or he could take it as an
insult.

He wants love that comes with quality, so he only has a few loves in his
life. Woman's trick will not work with him. If he breaks up with a woman, he
will also try to avoid all her friends and her environments too. He is very
picky and every breaking up, he will be double careful next time.

He can sweep woman with his charm, but he likes to keep his relationship
like a friend. He likes a sincere self confident woman, neat and clean,
perfect and tidy. A real two "P" , picky and perfectionist Zodiac.


VIRGO WOMAN


She will be similar to Leo woman in appearance. A slim woman who walks with
confident and proud. She has an egg shape facial structure, high and round
forehead. She likes to look straight as if she is searching. She is not a
pretentious type and will always say what she thinks.

You will see Virgo woman walks fast. She will try her best to be perfect, to
look perfect and to feel perfect even though there is no such perfection.
She is very delicate of what and how she dress. She is bright and easily
despair with obstacles. She likes smart guy who will be compatible with her,
so if you are a rich dumb guy, you can forget about her right now.

She is not a very possessive or jealous person for she expect respect from
her love one. She does not like a part time lover, or a temporary mate. If
she finds her dream man, she will not go away. If she does not like you, she
will always keep a certain distant. Act proper and appropriate is her
discipline.

She does not like and can not stand bad languages, cursing words or phrase.
She likes a gentleman who open the doors for her. She wants to feel
protected and when a man taking care of her, she will feel like a complete
woman.

She memorizes everything about other people and about herself very well. She
can really keep secret, you can trust her on this. She likes a refreshing
and a mild scent. She is very delicate in maintaining her beauty, so you
could see she is seriously picking soap which match and most suit her skin.
Do not comments her on this very picky habits, it is her happiness in
working full times as a self beautifier.

She is not an innocent angel for sometimes she can be as tough as steel.
Even she easily despair, she is not the type to cry over it. She is a shy
type, so making speech in front of the room can make her nervous even she
walks and talks confidently.

She only search for true love , not just any love. Her love is an ideal one.
She likes to think no one is neater and as effective as her, which can
irritate you sometimes for there is no such thing. She likes sweet talk, but
she can slip and say something unpredictable and unbearable to you too. When
she stops getting mad, she will totally forget what she just said and be an
angle again. If you have a date with her , you'd better be there on time.

Flowers and sweet word can calm her down. If you want to say sorry , make it
brief and straight forward. Do not drag your apologetic words into a long
making it up events, it could lead you to another world war. She likes her
man to dress nice and clean. She is good in details especially with money.
Do not make she thinks that she is a clown or funny.

In the beginning of knowing her, please try not to glance at other pretty
woman so much. Early period of dating her, try not to hold her so much in
public, it would not be a proper thing to do. She loves books, stage play
and music and likes to criticize about them too.

Criticism woman is her icon including big and small things in life starting
from your hair, your dress , and the way you talk. If you are in love with
her, be as almost perfect as your can.


[PS: buat si ibu peramal, tengkyu ya Bu saya jadi ada bahan postingan :P]

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Restart and Regrets

Di postingan kemarin banyak teman yang berkomentar, 'kalo error di restart aja' atau 'tinggal ctrl+alt+del!'. Sungguh ide yang menyenangkan. Restart then erased and rewind…

Ah..seandainya semua itu memang bisa dilakukan, mengulang hidup. Kembali pada kemarin dan memperbaiki semua kesalahan-kesalahan yang pernah ada, menghapus semua kesalahan itu dan mengubahnya menjadi benar [hmm..sepertinya saya akan sibuk sekali]

Namun, satu tanya yang melintas kemudian,jika bisa apakah saya mau melakukannya? Bukankah itu hanyalah suatu bukti adanya penyesalan akan satu hal atau banyak hal yang sedang happening saat ini dalam diri saya, sedangkan saya, adalah satu dari sekian yang tidak suka menyerah terhadap kata menyesal, penyesalan itu kejam, penyesalan itu tidak ada gunanya...

'there are no regrets in life just lessons'


Penyesalan hanyalah satu tipuan yang membuat saya terus melihat ke belakang, penyesalan membuat saya merasa gagal. Dan saya lebih memilih untuk percaya ucapan Thomas Edison bahwa saya tidak pernah gagal hanya saja saya baru saja menemukan 10000 cara yang salah untuk sukses, untuk bahagia…


[ɐʎuuɐɥɐlɐsǝʞ ıɹɐp sɐdǝl ɐsıq ʞnʇun uɐsɐlɐ ıɹɐɔ-ıɹɐɔuǝɯ ıɐpuɐd ƃuɐɯǝɯ ɐısnuɐɯ sǝıƃ 'ɥɐ]




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Menangis Semalam

[Tahukah kamu semalam tadi aku menangis,mengingatmu mengenangmu,mungkin hatiku terluka dalam, atau selalu terukirkan kenangan kita]
…..



Kenapa nangis? Patah hati? Di tinggal pacar?
--mmm..nggak, bukan

Oohh barantem? Marahan ma pacar?
--ah nggak juga,,

Trus apa dunk? Mmgnya kenapa pacar kamu?
--iiiiihhhhh!!! Mmgnya klo gw nangis harus ada sesuatu dengan pacar yaa?!!

Jadi? Bukan?
--[geleng-geleng kepala]

Karena apa dunk? Karena umur? Sudah tua blm married2 juga?
--idih..

Kuliah? Hmm..thesis kamu ya?knp thesis kamu?
--baik-baik aja ko

Bingung gw,,,,hmm gw tahu! Pasti krn kelinci kamu! Sakit ya? Mati ya?
--apah?! Kelinci gw sakit? MATI?!! KAPAN?!!KAPAN?!!

Eee, nggak tahu, gw ini nanya mksdnyah..
--huuuuh, nanya jg juga kira-kira dunk, masa sambil nyumpahin kelinci gw seh?!!

Ya sudah, kasi tahu gw donk, kenapa mata kamu sampe bengkak kaya abis disengat seribu tawon seperti ituh..
--yaa, gw kan malu jawabnyah..

Idih, pake malu segala ma gw..apa? Kenapa?
--uhmm…gw nangis ..uhm..karena..uhmm….semalem, gw nonton tokyo love story…dan gw gak trima endingnyah…masa gak jadian sih?!! Kan nyebelin!!!

Heeee???????? Dasarrrhhhh!!
--hehehe

....

[Diem ajah]
--hei kok kamu diem sih? Eh, knp diem? Say sumthing dunk…hei hei hei pundung yaa….ei ei ei

[Diem ajah sambil cemberut]
--Jawab dunk! Kenapa ko diem? Gw kelikitik lho klo gk jawab…

[masih diem ajah]
--Hei…

[Diem]
--[Colek colek]

[Diem]….
--Yaa maap!! Gw gak ada maksud bikin lo kawatir…

[Diem]
--Maap yaa…ihhh maapin dunk, maap

[Diem]
--Yaaa yaa maapin gw yaaa…..plsssss…plss..pls...

DORR!! Hahahaha!!
--uuuh dasar!

Hehehehe ya satu sama dunk!
--Hahahaha,,,,



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nama decoder gies

iseng iseng nyobain Name Decoder yang saya temukan di blog ini, dan hasilnya memang lucu hihi..



General Individual Engineered for Scientific Troubleshooting and Hazardous Assassination


Get Your Cyborg Name






Geek-Injuring, Explorer-Snatching Terror from the Haunted Abbey


Get Your Monster Name






Goddess Incomparably Exchanging Sensual Touches and Hot Affection


Get Your Sexy Name




hayo, punya mu apa nih?


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onething in common,

Jean-Baptiste Colbert, John Granville, 1st Earl of Bath, John Locke, Charles Townshend, Heinrich Graf von Bellegarde, Jan Śniadecki, Nikita Yakovlevich Bichurin, Jean Ingres, Frederick Maurice, Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr., Juan Bautista Alberdi, David B. Hill, Edward Carpenter, Andrew Fisher, Albert Lebrun, Charles F. Kettering, Preston Sturges, Aurel Joliat, Werner Forssmann, Dhyan Chand, Wolfgang Suschitzky, Barry Sullivan, Ingrid Bergman, George Montgomery, Luther Davis, Isabel anford, Giestha, Charlie Parker, Richard Attenborough, Marmaduke Hussey, Consuelo Velázquez, Dinah Washington, María Dolores Pradera, Charles Gray, Thom Gunn, Jacques Bouchard, Stelios Kazantzidis, Lise Payette, Arnold Koller, William Friedkin, John McCain, James Florio, Elliott Gould, Robert Rubin, Joel schumacher, Gary Gabelich, Robin Leach, James Glennon, John Heuser, Wyomia Tyus, Bob Beamon, James Hunt, Karen Hesse, Dave Malone, James Quesada, Viv Anderson, Mark Morris, Jerry D. Bailey, Michael Jackson, Lenny Henry, Ernesto Rodrigues, Akkineni Nagarjuna, Timothy Perry Shriver, Chris Hadfield, Rebecca De Mornay, Carsten Fischer, Hiroki Kikuta, Elizabeth Fraser, Anton Newcombe, Joe Swail, Jacco Eltingh, Carla Gugino, Bae Yong Joon, Adam Sessler, Olivier Jacque, Kumi Tanioka, Stephen Carr, Pablo Mastroeni,Jon Dahl Tomasson, John Patrick O'Brien, Aaron Rowand, Roy Oswalt, Charlie Pickering, Celestine Babayaro, Ali Eftekhari, Chieu Luu, David Desrosiers, Chris Simms, David West, Nicholas Tse, Geneviève Jeanson, A+, Carlos Delfino, effrey Licon, Lauren Collins, Tony Kane, Renisa Handayani, Risa Shimamoto,




dari sekumpulan nama ini, mereka setidaknya memiliki satu kesamaan....
ada yang dikenal?

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Becoming a super-duper-wonder-woman

Seorang teman mengatakan,
seorang cewek itu harus menghapus stigma suka ngambek, mudah nangis, dll. Karena cewek itu tanggung jawabnya besar

Saya, tidak membantahnya, karena boleh percaya atau tidak, saya ingin sekali menjadi seorang perempuan kuat, tegar, gak cengeng, gak menye-menye, dan sifat lemah cewek lainnya, pokoke jadi wonderwoman deh.

Bahkan untuk berubah menjadi wonderwomen, beberapa hal sudah saya lakukan. Misalnya tidak lagi gampang nangis setiap kali nonton filem cengeng. Lebih bisa meneriakkan apan yang ada dalam hati.Mulai bersuara jika diperlakukan semena-mena.gak gampang ngambek, nggak manjaan, berpositif thinking, lebih bersabar menghadapi sesuatu, tidak mudah menyerah, tidak lagi mudah cemburuan, tidak lagi menyusahkan orang lain terutama orang tua, nggak shopaholic lagi, bahkan latihan angkat beban, hehe ada hubungannya gak neh?

Tapi ternyata menjadi seorang perempuan tegar dan kuat bak Erin Brokovich tidaklah mudah. Apalagi dengan keadaan sekitar yang tidak ikut berubah memudahkan saya untuk menjadi wonderwoman, apalagi superwoman?


Kemudian berpikir
bahwa berubah dengan berharap sekeliling saya ikut berubah, bukanlah perubahan namanya. Berharap saya menjadi wonderwoman dalam lingkungan yang akan mempermudah saya menjadi wonderwoman bukanlah wonderwoman sesungguhnya.
Melainkan kemampuan untuk berubah di tempat yang memberi energi yang berlawanan itulah perubahan yang sebenarnya. Wonderwoman sejati. Superwoman


Tentu saja semua ini tidaklah mudah, saya tahu dari semula ini semua tidak akan pernah mudah, tetapi bukankah tidak pernah berhenti untuk menjadi yang terbaik sudah membuat kita berada diantara yang terbaik nantinya..bukan hasilnya kan? Tapi prosesnya…proses yang tidak pernah berhenti.


Jadi gies, jangan takut menangis disaat kamu gagal, sedih or mellow, marah atw kecewa, tetapi menangislah sepuasmu, tetapi kemudian bangkitlah lebih tinggi lagi, lagi dan lagi dan lagi…karena itulah yang akan menjadikanmu seorang perempuan, perempuan superduperwonder.

gambar diunduh di sini

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Enam Dua

Sudah Ulang tahun lagi, dan lagi-lagi tidak ada yang bisa aku berikan padamu..bahkan ucapan manis selamat ulang tahun pun tak terucapkan…apalagi kado mewah besar yang mahal harganya.

Hanya bisa menatap langit biru yang akhir-akhir ini penuh dengan awan hitam seolah tercermin semua kelam yang mewarnai alammu akhir akhir ini,,

adakah satu yang benar-benar mencintaimu, saat ini?

Aku? Ah tak teruji! Tak terbukti! Terbantahkan! Aku hanya bisa menorehkan abu-abu di batas kanvas tua abu-abu mu itu.

Sayang, ternyata berjalannya waktu tidak membuat guratan itu menjadi senyuman…namun hanyalah guratan lelah merintih "sudah.." atas corengan hitam yang menoreh luka berkali-kali di langit birumu…

Terseok-seok, menatap senja yang tak lagi jingga kau berjalan sambil membisikkan,

'berjuanglah…'

gambar diunduh di sini,

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Rendezvous belantara hutan maya

Hei! aku bertanya belum kamu jawab, kamu kan pergi tinggalkan hujanmu, sedihkah kamu?

Sedih tentu sedih, seperti beribu batu mengisi dadaku rasanya. Namun aku percaya bisa kembali menemui hujan. Suatu saat setitik cahaya di ujung sana akan menuntunku kembali pada hujanku, pada rindangnya pepohonan, pada sejuknya malam, dan kabutnya pagi. Aku memilih bertahan dengan harapan, harapan itu masih ada walaupun hanya setitik cahaya di malam hari.

Hahahaha, seringkali hujan tidak sadar kalau ternyata dia bisa memberi ketenangan kala jiwa mencoba berontak lari dari tubuh yang tengah tak bersuara.

Hei, kamu di di tempatmu menemukan kedamaian! biarkan aku di sini, dalam hujan aku bisa berdamai..
Hujan bisa meluruhkan kelam yang merajai hati, memadamkan api yang memberangus hitam asa, menjernihkan air yang mengeruh di sudut jiwa,
Aku gadis hujan, pencinta hujan.

Tunggu! beri aku ketenangan sejenak untuk menghimpun rasa, mencoba untuk bercumbu dalam keheningan dengan sang peluruh kekelaman-hujan.
….dalam sepersekian waktu berdentang, walo tak tampak di depanku, hujan sudah menyapaku pula, dalam hangat dia berkata;
Berdamailah dengan kasih dari tempat menyimpan sejuta cinta, hujan.


*Dedicated to my rainy romantic city.

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really... really...on hiatus



0rg4sm3: sebuah Pengakuan


PS: Hati-hati postingan ini Cuma hoax untuk 18 tahun keatas!! Awas tertipu!

setelah jalan-jalan ke salah dua blog favorit, sapa lagi kalo bukan blognya Cakmoki dan dokter Senyum sehat, walo pun sempet tutup mata sedikit melihat judul postingan terakhirnya, tapi dengan malu-malu tapi mau saya putuskan untuk lanjut membaca postingan tersebut.

I see, ternyata 0rg4zm3™ tidak semua orang pernah mengalaminya, walo pun mereka sudah punya anak banyak, perempuan belum tentu pernah merasakan 0rg4zm3 ™ , dan karena memang belum pernah merasakan, menjadi tidak tahu bagaimana 0rg4zm3™ itu, maka tidak pernah menuntut untuk 0rg4zm3™.

Iseng-iseng, pengen tahu deh, apa sih definisi pastinya dari 0rg4zm3™ yang menghebohkan itu, secara di blog cakmoki tidak dipasang link *kecewaberatceritanya*.

*hehehehe*akhirnya dapat juga definisi 0rg4zm3™ dari.. sini dan sini dan sini, ugh! *lagi lagi tanpa link*Banyak deh dan bermacam-macam. Setelah baca semua definisi satu kata ini *yang menghebohkan tapi agak-agak gimana gitu* rasa-rasanya saya walo pun belum menikah sudah pernah deh merasakannya, hayooooo…..

Eits, jangan berpikiran yang nggak-nggak dulu donk! Kalo benar definisi 0rg4zm3™ itu seperti itu™ , jujur saya pernah mengalaminya.

Saya pertama kali merasakan 0rg4zm3™ pada saat pertama kali menemukan kotkem™ dan disana saya pertamakali melihat beribu-ribu dvd bajakan dengan kualitas sebagus dvd original, dan saat melihat dvd serial friends dari season pertama sampai akhir lengkap disana, oohh, tiba-tiba kedua kaki saya gemetaran lemas seolah tidak bisa menopang berat tubuh saya, dan saat itu di detik itu saya 0rg4zm3, bisa memborong semua dvd Friends tsbt sungguh kenikmatan ruarr biahsa yang saya peroleh… …wow!


Hmm….kalo begitu apakah saya termasuk salah satu yang hyper?
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Itsu ka dare ka to mata koi ni ochite mo

Saigo no kisu wa

 Tabako no flavor ga shita

 Nigakute setsunai kaori

 

Ashita no imagoro ni wa

 Anata wa doko ni iru n' darou

 Dare wo omotte 'ru n' darou

 

You are always gonna be my love

 Itsu ka dare ka to mata koi ni ochite mo

 I'll remember to love

 You taught me how

 You are always gonna be the one

 Ima wa mada kanashii love song

 Atarashii uta utaeru made

 

Tachidomaru jikan ga

 Ugoki-dasou to shite 'ru

 Wasuretaku nai koto bakari

 

Ashita no imagoro ni wa

 Watashi wa kitto naite 'ru

 Anata wo omotte 'ru n' darou

 

You will always be inside my heart

 Itsu mo anata dake no basho ga aru kara

 I hope that I have a place in your heart too

 Now and forever you are still the one

 Ima wa mada kanashii love song

 Atarashii uta utaeru made

 

You are always gonna be my love

 Itsu ka dare ka to mata koi ni ochite mo

 I'll remember to love

 You taught me how

 You are always gonna be the one

 Ima wa mada kanashii love song

 now and forever

 Atarashii uta utaeru made

 

 

(Utada Hikaru, First Love)

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unconditional love

Aku Selalu Ada

Taukah kau akan perasaan itu
setiap kali kau menceritakan
kisah antara kau dan dia
sama seperti romeo and julie

kau menceritakan...
aku mendengarkan...

haruskah aku ikut bahagia
ataukah aku harus marah
karena aku iri pada si dia
karena aku juga cinta...

kau menceritakan...
aku mendengarkan...

ketika kau menceritakan
dia bergitu baik padamu
dia betapa penting bagimu
kau bergitu cinta padanya
dan aku hanyalah...

kau menceritakan...
aku mendengarkan...

ketika kau datang padaku
ketika kau bilang padaku
ketika kau menangis dalam
pelukanku...
kau bilang dia dingin padamu
dia melukai hatimu...

kau menceritakan...
aku mendengarkan...

haruskah aku marah padanya
karena dia melukai kau yg
paling aku cinta...

aku tidak tau harus bagaimana
apakah ikut terluka...
tidak,karena aku telah terluka
sejak dari pertama...
kau mengatakan..
kau cinta padanya

kau menceritakan...
aku mendengarkan...
tanpa lelah...
dengan setia walaupun
hati ini ada luka...

aku slalu ada...
aku ada...
didalam suka dan duka...
kau dan dia..

akukan slalu ada...
setia mendengarkan
setiap cerita suka duka
kau dan dia...

aku slalu ada...
aku akan setia...
kau menceritakan...
aku mendengarkan...

biarlah ku simpan
dihati yg paling dalam
rasa itu...
asal kau bahagia...

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These are a number of qualities which are important for mental peace,
but from the little experience I have, I believe that one of the most
important factors is human compassion and affection: a sense of
caring.
Let me explain what we mean by compassion. Usually, our concept of
compassion or love refers to the feeling of closeness we have with our
friends and loved ones.
Sometimes compassion also carries a sense of pity.
This is wrong-any love or compassion which entails looking down on
the other is not genuine compassion.
To be genuine, compassion must be based on respect for the other, and
on the realization that others have the right to be happy and overcome
suffering just as much as you.
On this basis, since you can see that others are suffering, you
develop a sense of concern for them.
(Dalai Lama's little book of wisdom)

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people are a part of their time. they are affected, during the time
that they live,by the things that happen in their world.
Big things and small things.
A war, an invention such as radio or television, a birthday party, a kiss.
All of these experiences help to shape people, and they, in turn,
help to shape the present and the future.
If we could know more about our ancestors, about the experiences they
had when they were children and after they had grown up, too, we would
then know much more about what has shaped us and our world.

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baca selengkapnya... people are a part of their time..



Dr. Goldfine: I'm sure Freud would not approve of this.

Bree: Oh, who cares what he thinks. I took psychology in college. We
learned all about Freud. A miserable human being.

Dr. Goldfine: What makes you say that?

Bree: Well, think about it. He grew up in the late 1800s. There were
no appliances back then. His mother had to do everything by hand, just
backbreaking work from sunup to sundown, not to mention the countless
other sacrifices she probably had to make to take care of her family.
And what does he do? He grows up and becomes famous, peddling a theory
that the problems of most adults can be traced back to something awful
their mother has done. She must have felt so betrayed. He saw how hard
she worked. He saw what she did for him. Did he even ever think to say
thank you? I doubt it.

(from 'Desperate Housewives')

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baca selengkapnya... Freud. (A miserable human being?)



"Begitu banyak orang menjalani hidup mereka tanpa makna sama sekali,
mereka seperti separuh terlelap, bahkan meskipun mereka sedang sibuk
mengerjakan sesuatu yang menurut mereka penting. Ini karena mereka
memburu sasaran-sasaran yang salah. Satu-satunya cara agar hidup ini
menjadi bermakna adalah mengabdikan diri untuk menyayangi orang lain,
mengabdikan diri bagi masyarakat di sekitar kita, dan mengabdikan diri
untuk menciptakan sesuatu yang memberi kita tujuan serta makna"
(Dikutip dari "Tuesdays With Morrie" karya Mitch Albom, alihbahasa
Alex Tri Kantjono Widodo, Jakarta GPU, 2001)

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baca selengkapnya... for what its worth



Some day, when I'm awfully low,
When the world is cold,
I will feel a glow just thinking of you
And the way you look tonight.

You're lovely, with your smile so warm
And your cheeks so soft,
There is nothing for me but to love you,
And the way you look tonight.

With each word your tenderness grows,
Tearing my fears apart
And that laugh that wrinkles your nose,
It touches my foolish heart.

Mm... Lovely ... Never, ever change.
Keep that breathless charm.
Won't you please arrange it?
'Cause I love you ... Just the way you look tonight.

With each word your tenderness grows,
Tearing my fears apart...
And that laugh that wrinkles your nose,
It touches my foolish heart.

Oh... Lovely ... don't you ever change.
Keep that breathless charm.
Won't you please arrange it?
'Cause I love you ... Just the way you look tonight.

Mm, tonight.

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baca selengkapnya... THE WAY YOU LOOK TONIGHT



one

Is it getting better
Or do you feel the same
Will it make it easier on you
Now you got someone to blame

You say
One love
One life
When it’s one need
In the night
It’s one love
We get to share it
It leaves you baby
If you don’t care for it

Did I disappoint you?
Or leave a bad taste in your mouth?
You act like you never had love
And you want me to go without

Well it’s too late
Tonight
To drag tha past out
Into the light
We’re one
But we’re not the same
We get to carry each other
Carry each other
One

Have you come here for forgiveness
Have you come tor raise the dead
Havew you come here to play jesus
To the lepers in your head
Did I ask too much
More than a lot
You gave me nothing
Now it’s all I got
We’re one
But we’re not the same
We hurt each other
Then we do it again

You say
Love is a temple
Love a higher law
Love is a temple
Love the higher law
You ask me to enter
But then you make me crawl
And I can’t be holding on
To what you got
When all you got is hurt

One love
One blood
One life
You got to do what you should

One life
With each other
Sisters
Brothers

One life
But we’re not the same
We get to carry each other
Carry each other

One

One.

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romaji diary and sad toys


‘ I think it’s already time to separate from my old friends-yes! From my old pals- and to build a house of my own…
So don’t be loved by others. Don’t receive favors from others. Don’t make promises to others. Never do anything that requires begging another’s permission. Never tell others about yourself. Always wear a mask. Be ready at all times to fight, ready to land a blow to the head. Never forget that when you become friends with another person, a day will inevitably dawn when you must break with him.


There are two ways of going through the world, only two. One, all or nothing, is to fight against everything. This way means to win or die. The other way means never to win but never to be defeated either. A man who is never defeated has freedom from care. The man who always wins has spirit. And neither one will ver fear anything. But thinking in this way doesn’t make me feel the least bit cheerful, nor does it lift my spirit. It makes me sad.

This sorrow of being driven from my home
As if pelted with stones

Will never dissapear.

(Taken from “Romaji Diary and Sad Toys” by Takuboku Ishikawa, Boston, Tuttle Publishing, 1985)

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